Teens experience a new sense of freedom when they get their licenses. But they often don't understand the responsibilities that come with the privilege. Parents can help by drawing up a driving contract, before turning over the keys, that clearly states the family rules as well as the consequences for breaking them. The contract should address safety, good driving skills and particular situations involving the car:
- Which car(s) is your teen allowed to drive? The car should have a driver's side airbag, a good safety rating and be easy to maneuver.
- What car care – putting gas into the car, oil changes, tire pressure and regular maintenance requirements – is your teen responsible for?
- What are your expectations regarding car clutter – keeping the car clean inside and out and free of trash?
- Who pays for insurance? Insurance rates for teens are often twice the rates for adults because teens have an average of three accidents between the ages of 16 and 20. Insurance rates will rise with each accident, sometimes costing thousands of dollars per year.
The contract should also stress safe driving practices, including:
- Always obey the speed limit and traffic laws.
- Always wear seat belts and make sure all passengers are
- buckled up before driving.
- No drinking/drug use. Driving while impaired is one of the leading causes of fatality in vehicle crashes. The contract should state that drinking and driving isn’t allowed, that there should never be alcohol in the car, and that your teen should never be a passenger in a car with a driver who has been drinking or using drugs. Assure your teen that she can always call you to come get her if she get stranded at a gathering.
- No driving with friends in the car for the first six to 12 months. Distractions are one of the main causes of accidents for new drivers.
- No using cell phones or texting while driving.
- Always letting you know where he’s going and when he plans to return.
- Curfew expectations. Night driving is especially difficult for new drivers and more accidents happen in the 9 p.m.-2 a.m. timeframe than during the daylight hours. Set realistic curfews, but also tell your teen that if she’s running late, it's always better to drive safely than speed to make up the minutes, and to call you if possible to let you know she’s on the way home.
The contract should specify what happens if the rules are broken. Get your teen's input on appropriate penalties. For example, a speeding ticket might result in the loss of driving privilege for a week and having to pay for the ticket. Download a sample contract to the right.